Does a baby never cry when it gets an injection?Is the child too brave?Don’t be so happy. It may be the child’s tactile disorder

It’s not uncommon to see children howling before the nurse has even begun to give them an injection.But there are individual children, from birth to five or six years old, injection almost do not cry.I know a mother whose son did just that.From birth till now 6 years old, every time inject even the needle does not cry, everyone praises him brave.Too often, we tend to think that children don’t cry because they are brave.In fact, the child’s such performance, there may be another hidden problem: that is tactile disorder.In general, haptic disorder is more secret, mild cases, easy to be ignored, the average person is difficult to judge.So, in daily life, what details of the child performance may be tactile disorder?For example, we usually find that some children do not like to be touched by others, like biting lips, sucking fingers, especially noisy when taking a bath, cutting nails, especially easy to wake up when sleeping, especially susceptible to reading or playing toys, these manifestations may also be caused by tactile disorders.How about 01?Is the above behavior common?But don’t people realize that all of these behaviors can be haptic?So it’s important to know, what is haptic disorder?Our body’s sense of touch is a response caused by tactile cells receiving external stimuli. There are many tactile cells in the body, which exist in the skin, viscera, bones, joints and other parts, so that we can clearly distinguish hot and cold, soft and hard, pain, pressure and so on.Touch, vestibular and proprioceptive senses are known as the three main sensory systems of the human body.The so-called haptic disorder, refers to the abnormal sense of touch, so that we respond to the corresponding stimulus is too sensitive or slow.Normally, the sense of touch maladjusted in our general cognition, will be inclined to think is to point to the sense of touch is dull, in fact, the sense of touch maladjusted also includes the sense of touch sensitive.What is tact retardation?If you find that the child has some of the following performance, it is likely to be insensitive touch: * special not afraid of pain.When the child fell down, he would not say a word even if he was bruised and bleeding. He would never cry when the needle was injected, and he would not feel much even if he was scalded by hot water.* Inability to feel even the slightest touch is ticklish, even when insects are crawling on your body.* Likes to touch and run everywhere, but has no sense of safety, and always knocks or knocks things at home or on the table.* Unclear social distancing boundaries.For example, in school, often accidentally bump into a classmate, he did not feel it.* Not being alert to potential threats.For example, picking up a dropped basketball on the side of the road and not noticing an oncoming car.So what is tactile sensitivity?* Tactile dependence.Typically, a child is too dependent on something, such as taking his doll, quilt or other objects with him wherever he goes, or he likes to touch his mother’s hair or hands to sleep, or he likes to bite his lips or eat his fingers.What is particularly impressive is that fu Yuanhui, an athlete on the show, once shared that she likes to touch a small red rope, which is a typical performance of tactile dependence.* There is a “wouli heng” performance.Unusually quiet in strangers or strange environments, but lively at home with his family, and often angry with them.* Especially susceptible to interference.For example, when sleeping, a little noise will wake up, in the toy or reading, a little noise will be interrupted.* Partial eaters, picky eaters, do not like to try new food.* Slow emotional state change, anger or crying after a long time can not calm down.In fact, after reading the performance of these tactile disorders, we can foresee the harm of tactile disorders to the growth of children. The most obvious practical harm is the following two kinds: * Children with tactile disorders are likely to encounter many practical problems when they go to kindergarten.Children with tactile disorders are difficult to adapt to a strange environment. It is easy to have problems in kindergarten life, eating, drinking and defecating. For example, because it is difficult to adapt to the new food in school, they may not eat well.In addition, children with tactile disorders also have difficulty in interpersonal communication.If the sense of touch is too sensitive, do not like to let others close to, like to play alone, easily withdrawn;If the sense of touch is insensitive, it is easy to cause the child to have no sense of boundaries when interacting with others, and it is easy to physically or emotionally collide with other children. He is also easy to get angry, and it is difficult to make other children like him or make friends.* Children with tactile disorders are more vulnerable to potential dangers.Children with insensitive sense of touch usually lack the predictability of unknown dangers when exploring the world, and often like to touch and turn around. Potentially dangerous things at home, such as hot water, knives and sockets, need to be avoided by children.When going out, adults need to be more careful, to avoid children in the roadside, playground, parking lot, water and other potential risk places to stay, to avoid children collision, falling danger.03 Haptic disorder is so harmful to children, so is there any way to remedy it?In fact, 0-6 years old, is the best time for children to touch training.But if you miss this stage, don’t panic, before the age of 12, seize the time to remedy, or a certain effect.As parents, we can take our children to do some common touch training games in daily life to correct the symptoms of tactile disorder in children.(1) more physical contact games with children before going to bed, can help children massage back, legs, hands and other places, the time is about 10-30 minutes, not only can help children relax, but also can increase physical contact, improve the child’s touch.At ordinary times, more physical contact with children.For example, you can hug your child more, or play more physical contact with your child.Physical contact games can be “tickling”, “arm-wrestling”, or some other slapstick game, just add physical contact.But in the process of the game, we should pay attention to a certain degree, as far as possible to make the child comfortable.(2) give children a good “rub” do not give up this good opportunity to take a bath.When taking a bath, use a towel, bath ball and other parts of the child’s body, such as hands and feet, back and chest, the action should be gentle and slow, if the child does not resist, can last a little longer.In addition, besides towel, still can try to replace the article of different quality of a material such as touch stick, touch ring.After taking a bath, you can use a hair dryer to help your child blow his hair a little, and use different wind speeds to let him talk about different tactile feelings.(3). “Blind box touch” game we can make a small “blind box”, put different materials in it, the parents say the name of the object, let the child reach in and feel the corresponding things out one by one, let the child feel the soft and hard, rough and smooth, warm and cool, and so on, and let the child describe the feeling.Usually in life, you can also let children play with sand, water, even play with rice, count beans, learn to turn over books and so on, let children touch different materials of objects.Can also take children to personally nature, guide children to collect leaves, fruits to make specimens;Summer with the child more wind, let the child feel the touch of the wind, or take the child to swim, let the cool river wash every inch of the child’s skin.Interested parents can also make a book of different materials.Usually let the child touch more.Conclusion: Modern children’s tactile disorder, to a large extent, is due to the formation of excessive protection of parents.So, in life, do not overprotect the child.If because we are afraid of dirty, afraid of trouble, afraid of danger, over protect the child, not to let the child touch, that do not let the child touch, just deprived them of the opportunity to touch everything, to the normal growth of children bring unnecessary trouble.If you have ever stopped your child from picking him up when he wants to climb the stairs, or calling him dirty when he wants to play with sand, or calling him dirty when he wants to play with water, or calling him dirty when he wants to eat by himself, or calling him messy when he wants to help you pick vegetables…If so, then you need to reflect.As a parent, in order to ensure the healthy growth of children, on the premise of safeguarding children’s safety and principles, we might as well let children explore the world more freely.I am Ai Yang Parenting, working mother, left hand working, right hand parenting, committed to sharing scientific, interesting, informative parenting knowledge, let us become better parents together.

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